July
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10 signs that you really are REAL best friends
(and everyone else thinks it's weird)
There is a relationship that is not just friendship. It goes beyond the weekly coffee, the „text me if you have a problem” and the fact that you go spinning together (which you hate). It’s the kind of friendship where you don’t know where you end and the other person begins. And you know what? People often think it’s weird. But we call it the BEST FRIENDSHIP.
And how do you know that you are really in a relationship like that? Well, I’ll tell you. From my own experience.
1.
You have an emergency code
One time we were so serious that I went over at 9.30 at night, in my pyjamas, without make-up. Just to be there. And she opened the door with a chocolate face mask on her forehead. He said, „I was just about to call you.” What is that if not a telepathic emergency response?
2.
90% of your conversation is sending memes
Seriously, our messenger looks like it’s been handed to two ADHD teenagers. One minute it’s puppy dog memes, the next it’s „I’m trying to be normal in 2023” type gifs. And sometimes that’s all we text each other:
– „This is you in the morning.”
– „Well, send this to your boyfriend if he doesn’t respond in 10 minutes.”
And you know what the best part is? If anyone else saw these conversations, they’d probably think we were mentally unstable. But what? That’s just how we talk.
3.
You only know your exes by nicknames
We’ve had „The Sandman”, „The Magpie” (he took everything), and the legendary „John K-” – who wasn’t even called that, but for some reason we always called him that. Not because we didn’t know their names. It’s because it makes the story so much better.
– „Guess what, the Magpie wrote to me again.”
– „Oh, come on, didn’t he put you to do the washing up last time?”
That’s how we could keep them at arm’s length – no names, psychologically wrapped up, just for decoration, for the stories.
4.
You „share” food (unintentionally)
– „I don’t want it, just a bite…”
This is a lie. He knows it. I know it.
We went out for pizza once. He got a big cheese, I got a hot pepperoni. And I wanted „just a bite.” He ended up looking at me like he was seriously considering ending our friendship.
– „You actually ate half my pizza.”
– „But out of love…”
5.
Awkward stories? You laugh at them together now
There was a party once where I took a sip of a guy’s drink and ran away when he noticed. And he was there, and he just said
– „It’s okay, I’ll figure something out.”
And he REALLY did. He theatrically pretended that I was his niece who doesn’t speak Hungarian, only Arabic.
Or when we cried together after my breakups. And she just said:
– „Give me a minute… I’ll get the wine bottle.”
6.
A bed? No question
We take it for granted. We slept together even when we both had boyfriends. But there was no question that neither of us would go home in the middle of the marathon. Because there was that episode of „Gilmore Girls” that we wanted to watch together FOREVER.
And no, it wasn’t weird. Just convenient. Like our relationship.
7.
Karaoke? We are the show
When we hear „Wannabe”, we jump immediately. And yes, we have a terrible voice. But we do it with such passion that everyone forgets how fake we sing.
Once a guy came up to us after karaoke and said:– „That was… well… special.”And we were proud of it. Because it’s our song.
8.
You have a secret that no one else knows
I cannot tell you. But I can tell you that it contains sugar, coffee, a strange city, a puppy and a spoiled present. And the fact that another friend still thinks she lost that cake. (No. We ate it. The two of us. Sitting on the couch. No shame.)
9.
Always the same pose in your photos
For us, it’s the „head to head – peace sign – head tilted to one side” trio. since 2017. We’ve been doing it even when it was embarrassing. And we still do it now. Because it’s OUR style. New guys look weird. Our old friends just look down.
But we know: it’s our little signature.
10.
If someone hurts the other, war is ready
One time a guy treated her pretty badly. Within three minutes I was calling, texting, threatening him, and doing my „I’m going to verbally pick you apart” monologue. (I never sent it, but it was pretty good.)
Because if he gets hurt, I get hurt. That was it. No arguments.
BONUS: If you know at least 8 of these things, then…
Congratulations. You guys are best friends. Not the „we run into each other sometimes” type, but the „I know you’re in trouble even if you just write ‘okay’ in lower case” type.
And other people might find that weird. That they think it’s too much, too tight, too omniscient. But you know that’s the basis of your friendship.
It’s not just a relationship. It is a LOVE.
What’s your funniest girlfriend story? Tell us in the comments! Or send her this article and write a sequel together!

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